Saturday, November 12, 2011

Highlights...


#ibmcsc India 14 Made this video to capture the memory. Alas, all good things have come to an end. Goodbye to friends who were strangers just 4 weeks ago. Au revoir, ciao, hope to see you again.

Goodbye, Chennai

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This is it. The last few hours to cherish and savor Chennai's smell, sense, sound, taste and touch.

Friday went by so quickly and so will Saturday. I started Friday morning with a walk to the Marina Beach to dip my toes in the water of the Bay of Bengal. The walk was quite pleasant, the sun is already out. The water is not cold -- can be warm at times. The beach can use some good cleaning in order to be suitable for bathing. Back later in the day, I went to Express Avenue Mall, doing some more shopping. Clean and shiny mall like American's. Stepping outside and you face a different world -- the real reality. I then walked back to Kailash passing several interesting sights.




Later on at night, we gathered to recount good stories. I showed the team the video that I made. It was well received by the team. I also took more photos later that night--part 2 perhaps?
We went to the other restaurant (Krisna) in the New Woodlands hotel again.  Full circle.  It's the same place where we got acquainted for lunch  and now goodbye dinner. 




I stayed up late and so woke up later on Saturday morning and so did not have my final walk to the beach as planned. Bummer. So I just did the normal routine: shower, breakfast, chatting with remaining members.. Fred and I then did the last-minute shopping: Pondi Bazaar, Fab India, City Center etc. Then back at the apartment, and I'm trying to catch up with the final blog now for the trip. Goodbye Chennai, hope to see you again..
Can't resist taking more pictures:

Wednesday, November 9, 2011

PR - Presentation

The last couple days, lots of things happened.  The PR shoot for IBM.  Not sure I was comfortable with that. I do like getting together as a team to express our feelings. Everyone was very enthusiastic and had lots to say. Martin is our spokeperson though. He summed up very well how we all feel about the program, each other and our projects. Suddenly, the dreadful feeling of all good things must come to an end crept up to me. And so I'm speechless for today trying to write the blog!
Here's some pictures for that occasion.



On Wednesday, we went to Kalakshetra for the final presentation. Madam Samson was there. The reception was fantastic, beyond my expectation. The interaction was very lively and everyone looked satisfactory. We were invited to lunch the next day. Imagine that breaking bread with the most famous person that I know in India... I'm so honored.
We went out to dinner with Govind and his wife. Very lovely couple. I enjoyed their company so much. Returning to the apartment, I joined Jana and Susanna for our last happy hour gettogether. I will miss them and hope to see them again! Next summer, Susan invited us..
I love you all Susanna and Jana!

Tuesday, November 8, 2011

Walking in Chennai..

I've been taking more walks now -- I feel that walking is the best way to see the city. So waking up early on Monday, sensing that it would be a warm day, I took a walk to the City Center.  Another 1/3 mile would take me to the beach -- but I just turned around.  Perhaps on Friday?  For lunch, I decided to walk to the bakery below Kabul that I saw.  Still want to find a good baguette in Chennai!  They don't have any.  They do have some puff pastry rolls and pies.  The shopowner (I assume) was very helpful and chatty.  I asked her about a number of policewomen that I saw while walking there; she said that they are traffic police!  It's like one station at every 10 meters!  The traffic still looks the same though...

On the way back, I stopped at Nigiris, a convenience store that we as a team frequently visited for western food. Saw Nutella there -- got to tell Fred and Jana. I walked down every aisle (not that many), and looked at every item in the store. Chatted with a couple from Switzerland, who has a "winter" house here in Chennai. The husband is an Indian, retired engineer, with a Malaysian wife (who thought that I'm Malaysian also -- got that a lot, non-VN they think I am). I settled for a couple cups of noodle. Tangy Chicken (but it has masala and just as spicy as you can get). I practically stayed in my room after that; enjoying 5th cross street from the balcony of my room. Had one cup of noodles as my dinner -- that's good enough for today. Fred did find Nutella at Big Bazaar in Express Avenue Mall -- a big, shiny mall, not too far from here. I looked up Google Maps for its location and how to get there-- another destination for me tomorrow!



Early Tuesday morning found me walking north on CIT Colony II Main Road (as supposed to CIT Colony I Main Road - the street naming system can be strange, as if there's a competition) toward Express Avenue Mall. The traffic at 6AM is fairly light -- I can cross the street safely. There were some early morning joggers and walkers; a few men in sarong (?) standing around watching me walking by (and snapping pictures..). It's fairly easy to get to the mall -- It took me a brisk 20'. However, it is definitely not a pedestrian-friendly walk! The Gowdia Mutt Road (extension of TTK) is strewn with .. well.. not PC at all for describing.  May be that's why I was fast -- practically running away whenever I saw one.  So I don't think I want to walk there any more -- the walk to the beach is better.  I returned to the apartment within the hour to be on time for  Yoga -- om, it's time for calmness ...



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Sunday, November 6, 2011

No tip.

It was a warm day today.   We stayed inside, enjoying the sunny weather, until closer to the time that we need to go to pick up the dresses, about 4:30 PM.  Turned out that Golden Bazaar (T.Nagar) is only around the block from Pondi Bazaar.  I was amazed how we can find the tailor shop again, considering last night with the rain and today with the crowd!  It was like the entire Chennai was out shopping since the rain has stopped.  We managed to find the alley and since I looked at the front of the shop carefully enough, we found the basement entrance to the shop.  We stopped along the way at different shops for Jana to look for a petticoat.  The shopowners seem to like having pictures taken.  One of them insisted on me taking his picture -- almost while he was sizing the petticoat on for Jana to judge.  They were very funny and friendly.  The dresses were indeed ready for us.  A bit small-looking but they do look great considering the price.

We then went to the Saravana store next door.. (again the old one, not the new one),  to look for a set of salwar kameez for my mother.  The shop girls were very friendly, and also like to have pictures taken and they liked to see themselves in the pictures!  Somehow, we were assigned a personal shopper.  She can speak some English and was very helpful.  Without her, we wouldn't be able to navigate through the different stories of merchandise: clothes, accessories, cosmetics etc.  They are so cheap here!  Imagine OC swap meet price divided by 10! 

For future reference, paying for purchase is very confusing.  First you would have to put your items in a small plastic colander.  The colander will make its way through different stations around the cashier counter:  a girl will total the cost into a receipt, which then to a guy to whom you would pay, then to the packaging station where they are put into a plastic bag, then sealed.  Very easy to be messed up!  I noticed a huge sign that said to check your items before leaving!  The single queue is surprisingly fast considering the amount of people!  (remind me of lines to get in a popular Disneyland ride -- With all that chaotic movement, we seemed to get a fast pass somehow!  Thanks to our friendly and lovely personal shopper!).  And she did not want any tips either.

We had dinner at the same hotel as yesterday.  The waiter recognized us and insisted us to order something else beside dosa - but Jana and Susanna like dosa!  I settled for mushroom fried rice.  Susanna ordered plain butter naan; he suggested her to order paneer or masala to go with that.  After much discussion, he reluctantly put our order through.  Except for the naan, the food came rather quickly.  Faster than McDonald's here!  As like the last time, we are attended by several waiters.  They made sure that our need is taken care of!  And no tip, they insisted.   Later, Roy reminded me that we may have missed the point that they always say No at first and you would have to go back and forth in offering -- at least three times.. Hmm.. I remember that training now, but completely forgot that at the time.

We had the same level of service from the rickshaw driver on the return trip.  He carried bags for Susanna and me into the apartment!  Nobody did that to us before.  (Now I felt bad too about haggling from 200 to the final price of 140).

Trying on the outfits in the room, I'm pleased; very well-fitted.  Though I am worrying that the clothes may be tight after washing.  or well, may be I can just hand wash and hang dry them.  Overall, I'm happy, it was a good day with the weather and the shopping experience...

More pictures:




Saturday, November 5, 2011

Shopping in the rain...

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Again, another experience not to be missed when you're in Chennai:  shopping in the rain.  So our Saturday plan is to do some exploration at Marina Beach, then meet with Sangeetha, who works for Susanna's NGO at 2-ish.  Then she will show us the local shops and tailors -- none of the high-end tourissy place like FabIndia or City Center...

Susanna, Martin, Dilminder and I walked to the beach -- in 45'.  Not that it's a long way.  Just dodging traffic and potholes slowed us down. The sun was shining!  Finally.  It was fairly warm and the  beach is .. practically .. deserted..  We actually did not get to walk on the sand.. just this nice long paved path... Some curious school girls from the nearby Queen Mary's College ventured over and struck somewhat one-sided conversation.  Susanna got an ice cream bar from a pushcart.  Kudos to her for supporting the local business.

As we walked on northward, the sky is darker and so Dilminder and Martin decided to go back.  We, the women of IBM CSC India 14, went on to see some more memorials and parks.  There was a group of 8th graders on field trip wanting to take pictures  with us.  And so we were, part of a tourist attraction as well. Rain started to pour, and just about time that Sangeetha called Susanna for the meeting location.

We got into a rickshaw -- no shelter from the rain there, since the backseat's was wet!  After 20' of maneuvering over the traffic of Chennai (in the rain -- you know what I mean ..) we got off to relieve the driver of having to hustle for a few more feet.  No ideas where we were, and whether it was the right place, we seek shelter in a major store, Saravana.  There are several stories of fabrics, clothes, ready-to-wear saris, salwars.  I was pretty tired and naturally grumpy when wet and hungry.  Luckily, I did make a sandwich so hunger wasn't a problem.  Couldn't do much about the wet bottom -- just had to wait (and you can tell that it's not going to be any drier quicker with the rain and humidity...).

After several miscommunication conversations later, we found out that Sangeetha was waiting for us too at a different Saravana shop!  There are like 3-4 of them.. Geez...  Anyway, after meeting Sangeetha, we thought that the trip was worth it.  She took us to some "hotel" (restaurant) for a nice meal of dosa and coffee (100 rupees total -- more expensive since it's in an A/C room) .  Susanna ordered a mosambi juice -- sweet lime but tasted like sugar-cane juice. A bit tepid.  I had a sip, then worried afterward, whether it was wise or not.. So far (16 hours later as of now..) so good..  After the tummy was happy, we were led to some fabric store, after navigating thru streets full of potholes (water...) and people.  This is a real authentic local Indian shopping experience!  The shop was full of fabric, and you can get really confused here.  I quickly pointed to some display items and purchased 3 sets!  I should be more well-dressed as an Indian now!  Susanna and Jana took a bit longer, but we all walked out of the shop very happy.  Sangeetha then introduced us to Master Suresh -- her favorite tailor.  We were measured from head to knee.  Apparently, the pants (salwar) are one-size fit all!   I wanted to have the dress (tunic rather) lined, and with zippered.  I was amazed at how inexpensive that was -- 3 complete set of tailored salwar kameez, beautiful fabric: only 2500 rupees total! around $50!  Less than a simple blouse at Talbot's!  No wonder people here are so well-dressed!  Outside of the shop, I quickly snapped pictures to make sure we can remember the location (in addition to the business card!).  Hopefully, we can find it back again today at 5pm!

More pictures for your enjoyment:



Friday, November 4, 2011

Kailash neighborhood.

As usual, I woke up quite early -- 6ish.
Today, I decided to take a walk around the neighborhood.  It's a very nice neighborhood with large villas.  There is some important government official living nearby; last night on the way to dinner, there were a crowd of soldiers, cars, drivers and a news van in front of one of the villas.

I like the leafy shade trees, the ornate wrought iron gates.  I was bothered by the heap of trash; am terrified of the stray dogs roaming the streets.  Sometimes, they howl at night.. kinda scary.

There is also a nice park 2 buildings away. I like to walk there, but it's only open at certain hours of the day.  There is also an early Yoga class where they would yell and laugh at the end of the session.  I'd like to join them, but not sure how.

My plan for today is to explore the city more.  Marina beach and naturally more shopping.  The sun is out today, at least for the moment.  Hopefully not too hot even.  but if it's not raining, then it is good.

Naturally, can't end this note without a slideshow:

Another wet day...

Rained a lot today.  From the room, I can hear the water pour and pour and pour..

In the afternoon, I went to look for some good French baguettes.  At Hot Bread, a chain selling sweet temptations., I was told that if I order and pay now, I can pick up tomorrow.  So I did. Will tell you tomorrow about the results.  At night, 6 of us + Jaya went for dinner at Kabu.  I'll say that I'll stick with biryanie.. 



Thursday, November 3, 2011

Movie.

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You'd need to see a Bollywood movie at least once when you're in India.  The experience is unique. It's better than I expected; though could have been a bit improved.  First there's the process of getting a ticket.  In retrospect, we should have done the American way - just go there..  Then there's the line to go into the cinema--it's tougher than going through airport TSA.  I was scanned and they went through my purse, opening up everything -- including the Altoid box!  The seats are comfortable, the theater is clean. We saw Ra-One in its second week and so not quite as crowded.  I think it's OK.  I'm not very good going to see movies in the theater -- falling asleep easily.  There was an intermission where you'd take a break for like 10' .. I wonder why.  Probably for people to go to the restroom -- very considerate.. or could be to change the reel.  The movie was 3-D also, but I don't feel as much 3-D as it should be.

I'm still not very good with picking a good Indian dish (only know that I can eat biryani or dosa)-- for sure, I don't think I like paneer or palak -- don't like the soupy spinach at all.  I'm not so quite adventurous, am I?  I do like the vegetarian dishes in the Kalakshetra's cafeteria though.  Love that a lot.

Here are little few photos:




Tuesday, November 1, 2011

When the going gets tough, the tough goes shopping..

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Really, it's not that bad, but shopping does make this rainy day a bit brighter.  Jana and I went shopping early evening!  We went to Pondi Bazaar again, but did not get much.  I got another card of bindi, some more custard apples (mang cau), very very good (and cheap!).  I also got another pair of Bata shoes.  Exactly like the ones that I bought last night with Susanna!

We hailed a rickshaw to take us to City Centre after that to get some dinner -- I had Subway (ok, so shame on me.. but Subway is much faster than other fast food places... and I get Veggie Delite, knowing exactly how it is tasted).  We then walked across the busy street to Fab India, a fabulous place to get Indian clothes!  I spent about 5' picking out some kurtas for Roy and about 45' to pick a Kurta dress for me.  (just because there are so many beautiful choices and I'm short on fund, so I have to be selective here...).  Jana and I walked out of the store feeling really happy...

Nothing beats a successful shopping expedition!

Not so many pictures for your enjoyment..... 


Monday, October 31, 2011

Handicrafts of Kalakshetra.

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We have the privilege to visit the Craft Education Research Centre (CERC) of Kalakshetra.  We saw how a sari is made -- silk, cotton.  We also witnessed the painstaking tasks of hand painting and block printing of a sari.  Outside the wall of the center is a busy road, and yet, the workers take their time and meticulously produce arts on fabric.

From the web site:

The Craft Centre at Kalakshetra was inspired by the same ideals that illuminated everything that Rukmini Devi undertook. In all that she did, Rukmini Devi's aim was to "permeate the land with beauty of spirit and form."

The Craft Centre is located across the street from the Kalakshetra campus. In the large, high ceiling hall of the handloom Weaving Centre, thirty looms weave saris in silk and cotton, and other textiles as well. Weavers spin and dye the thread for the saris woven on their looms. Printers and dyers work in the Kalamkari Unit, which was instrumental in helping to revive the art of Kalamkari which was almost lost through neglect in the early part of the twentieth century. Today Kalamkari fabrics are available across the country and the Kalakshetra kalamkari unit continues to produce fabrics printed in this style which are made into items such as bags and linen and sold through the Kalakshetra Craft Shop, located next to the Weaving Centre.




I bought the book, Rukmini Devi Arundale, Birth Centenary Volume, from the center as well, and spent the afternoon reading it from cover to cover.  How extraordinary was her life!  It is very inspirational.  I feel like I have not done much justice for the project after reading the book!  Time to work harder now!





Sunday, October 30, 2011

Looking forward.

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Sunday found me working on and off in the room.  I went to the market with Susanna to get some necessities for the next 11 days or so since the park was closed between 9 and 4! (too hot to walk I guess..)  So I should walk early tomorrow if I'm serious about getting back in shape with walking.

Late afternoon, Jana, Susanna, Martin and I went to a youth conference as organized by the Arunodhaya - Centre for Street and Working Children, Martin and Susanna's client.  The entire program was in Tamil; though we don't need a lot of  translation.  The kids organized most of the events.  They sang, danced, acted.  It's about being motivated to have an education, to avoid peer pressure, to deal with family situation... I was hungry though and so did not get to see the entire program.

After returning to the apartment, Susanna and I had pasta at Emilio's next door.  For a gelateria + pasta restaurant, Emilio's is pretty warm -- outside is a lot cooler! Had a cup of South Indian coffee.  Hopefully I'd still be able to sleep tonight.

Some pictures of the day:

Saturday, October 29, 2011

Kanchipuram trip.

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The team dispersed into different groups for the weekend.  Some went to New Dehli, some to Sri Lanka.  Susanna, Bas, Dilminder, Martin and I went to Kanchipuram, one of the seven sacred cities of India.

Here we see a number of temples with Dravidian architecture.  According to Wikipedia:

Dravidian style temples consist almost invariably of the four following parts, arranged in differing manners, but differing in themselves only according to the age in which they were executed:[1]

  1. The principal part, the temple itself, is called the Vimanam. It is always square in plan and surmounted by a pyramidal roof of one or more stories; it contains the cell where the image of the god or his emblem is placed.
  2. The porches or Mantapams, which always cover and precede the door leading to the cell.
  3. Gate-pyramids, Gopurams, which are the principal features in the quadrangular enclosures that surround the more notable temples.
  4. Pillard halls (Chaultris or Chawadis) are used for many purposes and are the invariable accompaniments of these temples.
Besides these, a temple always contains tanks or wells for water – to be used for sacred purposes or the convenience of the priests – dwellings for all the grades of the priesthood are attached to it, and other buildings for state or convenience.


We saw  Kailashnatha Temple. This link provides the following information:
The Kailashnatha Temple in Kanchipuram, dedicated to Lord Shiva, is the oldest temple in Kanchipuram. The Pallava king Rajasimha built this temple in one of the earliest styles of Dravidian temple architecture. The temple was built in the late 7th century AD and Rajasimha's son added the front portion of the temple later. The remains of the friezes of the 8th century AD within the temple complex still look beautiful and reminds of its original grandeur. There are several small shrines within the temple premises dedicated to Lord Shiva, his consort Goddess Parvati and their sons Ganesh and Murugan.

Then we drove by Sri Ekambaranathar Temple, but couldn't get to see much because of the blowing rain.  From  this link, I think we may have missed a lot.. oh well..

The Sri Ekambaranathar Temple in Kanchipuram, another temple dedicated to Lord Shiva, is one of the largest temples in the city of Kanchipuram. The entire temple complex is spread over 12 hectares of area. The origin of the temple can be traced to the Pallava Dynasty while the Chola Rulers made their contribution by adding to the temple. Krishnadevaraya, the king of the Vijaynagar Empire, extended the temple by adding a 59 m high gopuram or the gateway and outer walls in the early 16th century AD. The most pronounced feature of this temple is the thousand-pillared mandapam or the hall.

Break for lunch at the GRT Regency, I had Karaikudi Yera Thokku, a traditional tangy South Indian prawn curry.  Pretty good.  We then was dropped at a government silk shop, which I became disinterested quickly.

The last temple, Sri Varadaraja perumal temple,  was made more interesting from a clever tour guide, selling his service like a used car salesman.  We did have good information and he's quite good at what he does.   I was introduced to the several incarnations of Lord Vishnu, to whom the temple was dedicated.  From fish, to human to potential destroyer of human kind.  I felt relieved that Buddha was the 10+1 incarnation (according to the guide).    Reach Nirvana, to be free from sufferings so it doesn't matter if the world is destroyed or not.  We were tested the concept right away when Susanna found out that her shoes are missing:  worry, angry, sad, etc.

The trip back was long with traffic.  We probably moved at 15km per hour for the last 15 km!  Tired and cold, I craved for Pho.   I settled for room service:  tomato soup and stir-fried vegetable noodles.  Had my first cup of green tea (purchased from the "Big Bazaar" at Pondi Bazaar).  Not bad at all.  The whole day has been educational.

Here's the slideshow of the trip:




Friday, October 28, 2011

Another quiet day...

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Not too sure what to make out of this. I heard some commotion with bells ringing down below and so quickly had a look. It's a man pulling a donkey (or cow?), going from door to door, approaching everyone nearby and apparently is intimidating enough to get money out of people. One lady had to get out of her car and fumbled through her purse (away from the man though), to get some cash for him.

Friday was a nice day. Sunny and a bit warm again. I stayed at the apartment to work, enjoying the view outside the balcony -- green leafy trees, with the occasional honking horns. Funny how we are "immune" to the horn now. I also noticed less of the wiggling head. We were fascinated in the first few days of how the Indians would wiggle their head from side to side. I started to even do that as well.

Later in the evening, Susan and I went shopping at the Pondi Bazaar - a huge marketplace with lots of shops. It's a combination of swapmeet stalls with buildings with several levels of shops. Too bad that I forgot my camera and thus did not have a chance to capture the liveliness of that place. We had dinner at a restaurant specialized in Chettinad cuisine. Being non-adventurous, I chose the most familiar dish -- mutton (lamb) biryani (I thought it was bryani!!). There are 4 servers for the two of us! The waiter was very attentive, making sure that our plate is always filled with food -- so naturally I ate too much! The porotta bread is very good -- I have another one to add to my Indian comfort food now.

Susanna and I are good match. We both like going to the local markets! I bought a number of food items including peanut butter! This is for the guys in the team who may want some PB & J sandwiches... I need to resupply my fruit basket. There are fruit cart vendors around any corners. We still have communication problems. A majority of Chennai people do not speak English; so we have to point and use hand gesture a lot. We had fun and will return to this shopping bazaar again for sure.
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Thursday, October 27, 2011

Culture adaptability revisited...

I have a feeling that I'll be flunking any tests given to me for cultural adaptability right now.  Despite receiving training in cultural adaptability prior to coming here, I still have a sense that I have not reaped much benefits yet.  I'm at the stage now that I do want to return to my comfort zone as Ralph would have put it.  I yearned for my normal routine, my home comfort food and surrounding.

Don't get me wrong, I love being here.  This experience will be with me for the rest of my life, and I would recommend this to anyone without hesitation.  I do feel that we have been bombarded with so much in the last two weeks (some of our team members are luckier and have experienced the daily Indian life more than I do).  I think a number of our team members are feeling like I do now.   We are in a more subdued mood and everyone is back into their shell (room..)  I feel too like doing a psychoanalysis of how we feel -- which I think is anticipated much like experiencing some trauma in your life (and gong through shock, anger, grief etc..)

Last night, Jaya took us to experience Havanna, a bar in the Raintree hotel; a good place for the younger Europeans in the group.  (Way out of my comfort zone, I'd say).  I did have some fun (my kids will be surprised to read this!) though being living in such a sheltered, homey person.  I do have to say that a drink at 200 rupees apiece ($5) is way too much where that amount can be used to help the poor.   Ralph has some very poignant pictures of India in his Facebook, and just looking at that would make you pause for a moment to think about life...

Wednesday, October 26, 2011

Diwali...

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The team went on another excursion around the city:  St. Thomas Basilica, Marina Beach, Burma Bazaar, Crocodile bank.  Rain was on and off throughout the day.  If you see the melon smashing picture, see this link for more details information.

In South India that victory of the divine over the mundane is celebrated in a very peculiar way. To re-enact the victory of Lord Krishna, some believers will break melons on the door step of their homes, representing the head of the demon king. After smashing the melon, people will smear their foreheads with a mixture of kumkum powder and oil, which represents the blood Lord Krishna smeared on his head. They will then take an oil bath, using sesame oil with cumin seeds and peppercorns,before bathing with rose water.


Later in the evening, a number of us donned on Indian clothes to go out for dinner at Benjarong.  We had to navigate through the hazy, smoggy, noisy TTK road and for several times, started to doubt if we were on the right track.  Finally at our destination, we were glad to see Fred and Jana arrived at the same time and in style.  They were royalty in Indian attire: sari and kurta.  We admired Jana -- looking like a queen, wrapped in a deep red silk brocade sari.  Fred looked very at home as well.   We had a great dinner.  The walk back seemed to be much faster.  The day ended with us sharing Diwali sweets as shared by Fred and Jana.


A picture is worth a thousand words -- So here's hundred thousands or so for the day's activities:

Tuesday, October 25, 2011

Diwali Eve

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The day was started with lots of thunderstorm and heavy rain-- monsoon season is here.  People told us that only in Madras do they have a wet Diwali.  Though that did not hamper the celebrating spirit.  It is almost midnight now and fireworks have been heard quite loudly.  Good thing that I had taken a nap earlier in the day.

Today, as we wrapped up the interviews with various groups, we were  very honored to be able to meet with Ms. Leela Samson, the Director of Kalakshetra.  She is beautiful and gracious, well spoken.  Mr. Menon was there as well.  Kalakshetra is well represented with both Ms. Samson and Mr. Menon.

Returning back to the guest house a bit earlier than normal, I went straight to bed for a nap.  The nap was rather long.  So I missed a great shopping opportunity with Susanna and Jana ;-<  Next time I guess.

As a team, we tried to agree on some activities for tomorrow -- I don't know how that's going to be -- Type A personality abound.  Personally, I like to do something that is well planned and it's hard for me to do anything impromptu.  I'd like to see if I can visit Mysore though.  Perhaps we should look into that..

Susanna, Fred, Joel, Christian, Fernan and I went to Zara, a tapas bar for dinner.  It has the atmosphere of a night club (no dancing though), loud, 70's, 80's Western music ranging from Abba, Roxette to Michael Jackson, Van Helen....   Interesting ambience.



Slide show:


Monday, October 24, 2011

Monday.

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Diwali is on Wednesday. Firecrackers can be heard around the city last night. As a matter of fact our neighbors are having fun firing up firecrackers. It's like Tet for Vietnamese. I think it is auspicious that we get to witness a special Indian holiday. Festivities are planned everywhere. We will have a short day at the office tomorrow as well.

I worked with the College of Fine Arts today, capturing screenshots. Having more interviews and I think I should have enough information to work on my portion of the project. We also took a walk to the beach which is only around the corner of the college. The beach is quite empty and the surf is high. The weather is getting cooler (relatively..) too with sporadic rain.

I noticed too that getting non-local fruit could be pricey. Only 46 rupees (1 dollar) for 2 bananas, 2 guavas, and 2 custard apples. Since the shopowner had no change (from a 100 rupee note), I purchased 3 kiwis. Now, those 3 alone costs 75 rupees (1.6 dollar). Guess they have to import it from New Zealand or so.. Shame on me, I should support only the local farmers!!

Later in the night, a few of us went out for a walk. There was a sweet fair (lots of fried stuff -- doughnuts, funnel cake came to mind..). I purchased a strand of the jasmine lei to freshen up my rooom. Got to be in the spirit as well. We also had interesting kulfi -- Indian ice cream. I think with my salty taste bud, the ice cream does not make a good impression.

Here's more slideshow:

Sunday, October 23, 2011

Weekend trip.

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We're back from an exhausting but fun trip with the entire team to Pondicherry. It was a bit chaotic but overall the experience is great. As it came with my profession, my mind was often raced with thoughts and ideas about how to optimize the process better : BPM (business process management) and BPO (business process optimization) in daily routines!


I haven't blogged regularly because my sleep patterns suddenly changed for the worst!!! Tossing and turning during the night did not produce necessary rest. For example, I would be up at 3am -- then couldn't get back to sleep. In a way it's good if I want to work, since the network responds better. I'll try to see if I can find the reset switch in my body.

So with my last blog stopped on Wednesday, let me recall and summarize the last few days' activities. Few team members and I have been doing Yoga in the morning. For a first time that I'm in a Yoga class where there are more men than women. Fantastic. The guys in the team are such good sport. Make me laugh all the time.

As noted previously, Dillminder, Bas and I would be picked up to go to the Kalakshetra campus. Despite going there for a few times now, I still haven't figured out what route it was since everyday is a unique path. The traffic in the morning is relatively less than the returning trip in early evening. As we approach the campus, it's quite scenic, going through streets lined with shady trees. We had a few interviews with the different groups: the office of College of Fine Arts, the Research and Documentation, one of the high schools, the Research library. We had lunch on campus: really good vegetarian meal. I was also fascinated with the sari: Indian women in sari is such a beautiful sight, so graceful!

On Friday, we went to the IBM Tower office, that is not too far from the apartment; though we have to cross the busy TTK road: without Dillminder, I don't know if I could cross the street by myself. The office is bustling with people. Hard to get a meeting room though. Friday night dinner was excellent at the Copper Chimney. The 1-hour wait was worthy.

On Saturday morning, 2 cars took us to Pondicherry -- a town with some remnants of French past, about 130km from Chennai. Near Pondicherry is Auroville. The main "attraction" is Matrimandir. A unique place; though we did not have a chance to get inside. After a rather long checkin process at the Ginger hotel (here's when I can't help but really want to make this process more efficient to improve the customer satisfaction rate for the Ginger hotel...), Susanna, Jana and I spent a lot of time bonding. We were taken to Rue de la Marine to experience the French colonial past of Pondicherry. The street names still remain very French: Rue de.. , Quai de.... We were taken by surprise a downpour as we walked along the beach. After being scattered, and, finally re-united after a good hour later, the team had our first foreign meal at Le Club, that is completely non-Indian. We had some red Indian wines -- which can only be sold in Pondicherry! The night ended with us, the IBM India 14 women, sharing life stories.

I was up again at 2am on Sunday morning; naturally, my Sunday was not so great with me feeling tired and a bit motion-sick. We did visit Mahapalipuram (I'm amazed at how Jana can pronounce it). You can see the slideshow for more details... The drive back was full of hair-raising moments. I was too tired to go out anymore, and so after taking a shower, I went to sleep. So here I am trying to catch up with blogging.

More photos can be seen on my Picasa public web album...
 

Wednesday, October 19, 2011

CSC - Kalakshetra

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Tuesday 10/18/2011

After the Monday meeting, the team dispersed to their respective groups. Our client, Kalakshetra Foundation, picked us up to their lovely campus. We were greeted warmly according to the campus tradition. I believed it was Ms. Jyolsana Menon who gave us such an inspiring talk about the school under the sprawling Banyan tree. I'd think I could just chat with her forever. The day progressed with productive meetings and a lovely lunch at the campus canteen.

Gavin and Kabi had us meet again later in the day to go over the projects. It seems that every one will be busy to finish the projects in the next few weeks!
The day ended with a late dinner at the Dhaba restaurant.
Slide show for the day:
 




Wednesday 10/19/2011

Feeling like we need some fruit, I went to the market at 6:30am, but the market was not opened yet (not until 8). So I stopped by a fruit stand for some fruit to share with the group as well.

At 7, we had our first Yoga lesson in India. The instructor patiently explained the purpose of Yoga -- makes a lot of sense to me. In addition, I feel like I must have learned Yoga incorrectly all along. Hopefully, we can get more sessions going for the next few weeks.

Again, the day progressed with more productive meetings. I need to take better notes. My chicken-feet scratching on the page is incomprehensible! More details to process tonight. Feeling both tired and a need to work, I decided to stay in to blog and work naturally.

Slideshow of the day:

Monday, October 17, 2011

Ready. Get set. Go...

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Today, we have the first meetings. The team met the respective clients and we had a fruitful day of project briefings. I am honored to be part of a team serving great causes. As I listened to each and every project, I am convincing of IBM values. We are stepping out of our comfort zones in order to contribute as well as to learn. For our small team of 3, Dillminder, Bas and I, we're given a task that to me both challenging and interesting. I'm looking forward to a fruitful project.

After the meeting finished, the "girls", Jana, Susanna, Carol and I made our contribution to the local economy: we went shopping. FabIndia has so many beautiful Indian dresses. Each one of us bought something from the store: I bought a beautiful blue silk kurta and a fuschia dupputa. We went to the food court in Chennai City Center. One thing for sure, this is no fast food-food court. The food is above average for fast food (however, the wait can be a tad long).

Tomorrow will be our first day at work. The time: 9:30am.

Did not have a lot of pictures. Just a few at dinner.
Slideshow of the day:

Sunday, October 16, 2011

Team building

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We did a lot today as a team. Gavin had us relive our childhood memories with markers and papers -- That is to show why I'm better off to be a Computer Science major and not Art.

After the lively team building exercise, we went to the New Woodlands hotel for lunch. We had thali - another very good Indian food, that ended with a lovely cup of ice cream and fresh fruit.

We then decided to walk to see a few temples as well as checking out more Chennai streets. On the way to Kapaleeswarar Temple, we saw a number of interesting things, including a spiral staircase that kids would have loved and parents to be nervous. The back of the temple was guarded by this lady who has a lei stand for offering, and shoe keeping business on the side.

As instructed by Martin, we walked around the temple's ground 3 times, clockwise. The temple has a number of interesting pagodas that remind me of Cham towers in the middle region of Vietnam (Nha Trang). The roofs were adorned with statues depicting the story of Lord Siva.

Some members of the team decided to return to the apartment while some of us proceeded to another temple, Sri Ramakrishna Math temple. Along the way, we spotted no less than 3 to 4 more Hindu temples. As mentioned by my Indian friends, Chennai has lots of temples -- good photo opportunities.

On the way back, I had my first rickshaw ride. Quite an adventure on 3 wheels. An inexpensive thrill ride without waiting in long lines at the amusement parks.

Later in the night, we met with Kabi, got phones, then headed out to the beach. Had coconut juice and corn -- that's good as dinner for me. So I went back early while the others went on with the night activities : dinner.

Slide show of the days:

Saturday, October 15, 2011

Hello, Chennai

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After a long flight to Dubai (16 hrs) then another 4-hr flight from Dubai to Chennai, finally arrived. On the flight to Dubai, I was sitting next to some one going home to attend his mother's funeral. With sympathy, I gave him lots of room since he's sobbing now and then in his sleep. Maybe, that's how I earned good karma and get an upgrade to Business class on the next leg of the flight unexpectedly. Met with teammates Mike and Bas at Dubai airport. They are extremely friendly and very helpful. Met Jaya from CDS right away. She has my name correctly spelled! Jaya gave us some leis and promptly got us loaded into a nice comfortable mini-van. Mike was amazed at the sea of people waiting outside the airport at 3AM! The weather is still OK, not as humid as I was warned. Or may be I haven't been out during the middle of the day yet. When I left California, it was dry heat, 96-degree Fahrenheit. So this heat is still not bad yet. The drive from the airport to the apartment was uneventful -- Traffic was not so much; the streets at night look like any other city. The apartment is located in some very leafy green neighborhood. Will have to check out the streets in the morning. I got a room - with air conditioning, and a balcony overlooking the front street. Nice. However, mosquitoes already find me tasty. I need to remember to put on the insect spray.

We managed to have every one in the team (except one -- arriving late tomorrow) gathered at noon according to the itinerary. After settling some logistics items, we headed out into the streets. We got to exchange some money (need a photocopy of your passport), then walked to have some lunch. A lot of us had dosa -- this does not look the same as what I had in Orange County, the DosaPlace. It is better actually. We then shopped at a nearby supermarket for water bottles and some snacks. The walk back to the apartment was through some nice, shady streets. We all had a good workout walking in the heat. By then, I was totally tired and promptly took a nap. Did not join the team for tonight dinner. Tomorrow.

Slide show of the day highlights

Tuesday, August 30, 2011

Culture adaptability #ibmcsc india

For the past few weeks, we've, as a team, working on several interesting research subjects about culture -- Time, conflict, dress code, etc.

Being an Asian woman born in Vietnam, and I have a number of Indian friends and coworkers, but growing up in the US, I feel still that I need to be more sensitive.

Wednesday, July 27, 2011

Agenda

Action Items - Deadline

Travel Policy and FAQ sent to Chennai Team July 27, 2011
Participant returns Travel Form to CDS- August 3, 2011
CV and Cover Letter submitted to CDS- ASAP
Proposed flight/travel itinerary distributed to participants -
Within 3 Business days of receipt of the Travel Form
Participant responds to CDS’ proposed itinerary - Within 24 hours
CDS finalizes Air Ticket Purchase -ASAP, no later than August 26, 2011
CDS sends out Letter of Invitation for visa application - Within 3 weeks of receipt of the Travel Form
Participant submits visa receipts to CDS for reimbursement - 6 weeks prior to assignment

CDS sends out Scopes of Work - 5 weeks prior to the assignment
CDS sends out comprehensive Logistics Document - 5 weeks prior to the assignment
Arrival in Chennai, India - Saturday, October 15, 2011
Last day of work with local client - Friday, November 11, 2011
Program ends, Depart Chennai - Saturday, November 12, 2011

Sunday, July 17, 2011

CSC - Emotional Intelligence

What is emotional intelligence? EI is understanding yourself and others, and working well with people.



E. Sterrett's
Model of Emotional Intelligence
Self Dimension
Self-awareness (Knowledge) Accurately knowing our own feelings, preferences, goals, and values; sensing how others feel about us, and using that information to guide our behavior.
Self-confidence
(Attitude) A "can-do" attitude, a belief in ourselves; overcoming self-doubt and taking reasonable risk; being assertive and not aggressive; being goal-directed; admitting mistakes and moving on.
Self-control
(Behavior) Dealing well with stress; controlling emotional moods or outbursts without over-control; being adaptable; balancing rational and emotional considerations.
Social Dimension
Empathy
(Knowledge) Easily reading and understanding others; having empathy; listening well; reading nonverbal signals.
Motivation
(Attitude) Taking initiative; having a positive outlook; being creative; inspiring others; doing things we believe in and are committed to.
Social Competency
(Behavior) Finding common ground to establish rapport and minimize conflict; persuading and influencing others; being likable and having positive relationships; having integrity.



Why is emotional intelligence important?

Good leaders.

Can I change my emotional intelligence?
Complete the EI Self Assessment contained in Chapter 3 of The Manager's Pocket Guide to Emotional Intelligence by Emily Sterrett (downloaded)

Beyond this, consider some ways to further emphasize and practice your EI at work. For example:

* Reflect daily on ways to improve, and ways you can collaborate more with others (self awareness and social competency)
* Challenge yourself to really listen more to others’ feelings and ideas, instead of being so focused on yourself (empathy)
* Consider aspects of your current role that are especially difficult for you, and develop some strategies (perhaps with the help of others) to address these things more directly (self-confidence, social competency, motivation)
* When you feel yourself getting upset, step back from the situation and think through a constructive response given how you want your employees to move forward, rather than losing your temper (self-control)
* Ask someone you trust at work to be fully candid with you to share things about you that you probably don’t know about yourself; ways that you could explore new capabilities or improve to be more effective.

How can I tell if someone else has high emotional intelligence?

CSC - Whole brain thinking - Master the Basics



What are the four preferences?

The metaphor divides the brain into four separate quadrants. Each quadrant is different and of equal importance.

* The Upper Left Blue A Quadrant specializes in logical, analytical, quantitative, fact-based thinking.
* The Lower Left Green B Quadrant focuses on details and specializes in planning, organizing, and sequencing information.
* The Lower Right Red C Quadrant places a priority on feelings and the interpersonal, emotional and kinesthetic aspects of a situation.
* The Upper Right Yellow D Quadrant synthesizes and integrates information and is more intuitive and holistic in its thinking.


(From Edvisor)


To "stretch":

A Blue Quadrant:
Conduct an in-depth analysis of the numbers;


B Green Quadrant:

Develop a highly detailed project plan and timeline;


C Red Quadrant:

Facilitate a highly emotional conflict resolution discussion

D Yellow Quadrant:
Develop a long-range forecast that goes out 10 years.

CSC - Getting Started with Your Team

3. MY PERSONAL CSC EXPERIENCE
o Personal goals you hope to achieve: Seeing my effort make an impact. Be able to blend in and work in an environment where my daily necessities are no longer the same. How to effectively communicate my task.


o Assignment goals you hope to achieve that benefit the community and your client: Use of technology to achieve productivity.


o Professional goals - consider sharing with your manager and regular work team: Spread the benefits of the program both personally and professionally.

Friday, July 15, 2011

Corporate Services Corps

I got accepted to the IBM Corporate Services Corps program!
That's an honor since it's very selective and its purpose is about altruism. My lifelong wish of joining the Peace Corps is now fulfilled!

I will be going to Chennai, India from mid-October to mid-November. How fun!
I'm now doing the pre-work training. Lots of documents to read, assignments to perform, but I'm excited!

At the same time, my work is picking up two-folds. I just finished an unsolicited task that is to improve our development process. In addition, I got pulled into another unexpected project. So my summer is all booked!! I certainly really enjoy the challenges.